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    Packing Checklist to Pick Up Your Adopted Baby

    Jan 10, 2023

    You may have prepared for this moment for months or even years. But getting the call that it’s time to pick up your newborn can still come as a surprise. You may have only a few hours of notice before you need to get moving. Even if the drive is short, it can feel like the most important trip of your life!

    It’s okay to worry. After all, the adoption trip is such an important part of your first impression and first moments with the newest member of your family. But you’ve got this. Remember everything that came before and led up to this beautiful moment. You’ve handled everything so far – and this is so worth it.

    The sooner you get started packing to pick up your adopted baby, the better.

    Let’s take a peek at some supplies that aren’t to be missed on your big day:

     Car Seat

    A car seat is an absolute “must have.” If you’re picking up your child from a medical facility, they may not release you to leave unless you have a suitable car seat. Remember, not all car seats are designed for accommodating newborns. This could take some research.

     Clothing (for Everyone)

    Depending on how far you’re traveling, it may be essential to pack an assortment of seasonal clothes for yourself. For your baby, at least two seasonal outfits plus pajamas should be selected for each day you expect to be away or on the road. Cover a range of sizes from newborn to three months.

     Bottles and Formula

    Before setting out, consult with your pediatrician about formulas and bottle feeding. Only an expert can point you in the right direction when it comes to healthy formula that truly meets your child’s needs. What’s more, they might even be able to provide free, travel-sized samples!

     Diapers and Wipes

    Newborns average about twelve diapers a day over the first month, and you may use anywhere from 2-4 wipes per diaper. Ultimately, that works out to more than 300 diapers for the first month alone. After the first month, usage goes down about 20% -- but always get more diapers than you think you’ll need!

     Portable Crib

    Although newborns have a reputation for keeping the house awake, they actually spend much of their time dozing. In fact, they should get about 14 to 17 hours of sleep every 24 hours. Some may sleep as much as 19 hours a day. Prepare them the perfect place to take those naps before they arrive home.

     Medication

    Prior to picking up your newborn, fill any medication prescriptions you need. It could be hard to find time to pick them up later. Also update your supply of over-the-counter remedies for headaches and other common ailments. Keep these safely out of reach of your newborn, of course.

     Snacks

    Your trip to pick up the little one may be long and exhausting. Baby is too young for snacking, but the adults will need something to keep their energy up, especially if meals are missed. Seek out low sugar, high protein snacks that will keep your energy levels higher for longer periods of time.

     Folders and Paperwork

    Your adoption attorney can let you know exactly what paperwork you will be expected to present when it is time to meet your baby. Get a list in advance – then check and double-check that list before you go. While any paperwork can be reproduced later, missing something could cost delays.

    10 Sept, 2024
    Adoption is a profound journey that reshapes family boundaries, often bringing immense joy and fulfillment. Among the various forms of adoption, kinship adoption stands out as a unique opportunity to maintain biological family ties while providing children with the stability and love they need. As an adoption attorney, I have witnessed firsthand the transformative power of kinship adoptions and the myriad benefits they offer to both children and families. Preserving Family Bonds Kinship adoption occurs when a child is adopted by a relative or a person with whom they share a significant emotional bond. This could be a grandparent, aunt, uncle, adult sibling, or cousin.. One of the most significant advantages of this arrangement is the preservation of familial connections. Children in kinship adoptions may experience less trauma compared to non-relative adoptions because they are placed in a familiar environment, with people they already know and trust. Continuity of Culture and Identity Children thrive on continuity, and kinship adoption can provide a sense of identity and belonging that is crucial for their development. By staying within their biological family, children can maintain their cultural heritage, traditions, and language. This continuity can help to foster a strong sense of self and supports a smoother transition into their new family dynamic. Strengthening the Support Network Kinship adoption not only benefits the child but also strengthens the support network for the adoptive family. Relatives often have an established relationship and understanding of the child's background and needs. This shared history can make it easier for the family to navigate challenges and celebrate successes together. Legal and Financial Considerations From a legal standpoint, kinship adoption can be more straightforward than other types of adoption. Since the adoptive parents are already related to the child, there may be fewer hurdles to overcome in terms of custody and parental rights depending on the circumstances. Additionally, some states offer financial assistance and resources specifically for kinship adoptions, helping to alleviate potential economic burdens. Emotional Stability and Well-Being Children in kinship adoptions generally benefit from greater emotional stability. They may be less likely to feel abandoned or rejected since they remain within their family unit. This stability is essential for their emotional well-being and may lead to better outcomes in terms of mental health, academic performance, and social relationships. Conclusion Kinship adoption is a compassionate choice that can enrich the lives of everyone involved. It offers a way to keep families together, preserve important bonds, and provide children with the love and security they deserve. As an adoption attorney, I am committed to supporting families through this process, ensuring that the best interests of the child are always at the forefront. If you are considering kinship adoption, we encourage you to explore this rewarding path and discover how it might benefit your family and your loved ones. Learn more about kinship adoption now.
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