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    Creating a Compelling Adoption Profile

    24 March 2022

    When you wish to adopt a child, you’ll need to complete an adoption profile either to search privately (independent adoption) or through an agency. Many prospective adoptive parents don’t find out about the profile until well into the process, but you can begin working on it at any time, understanding you should not pay for a service to assist you until your attorney or agency has advised you of their requirements.


    An adoption profile is not like any other document you will complete during the adoption process. In fact, it is one of the only things you need for a successful adoption that does not require an attorney. Instead, you will usually work directly with an adoption agency or third party company that assists adoptive parents with the process to complete it. 


    Your attorney can refer you to reliable companies to handle this service for you.


    What Is an Adoption Profile?


    An adoption profile takes the form of a “hand guide” to you and the environment a future child adopted by you will be raised in. Successful adoption profiles are usually attractive brochures about your life with plenty of photographs and a visually appealing design.


    It is important that your adoption profile is authentic and accurately reflects your life.


    What Is an Adoption Profile For?


    An adoption profile used to be called a “Dear Birthmother Letter.” It is no longer just a letter, of course. It details everything about your family (but not identifying information) and is directed to a pregnant woman considering placing her child for adoption. This helps to envision the life her child will have with you and gives her confidence about making the right decision for her and her child.


    What Is Included in an Adoption Profile?


    There’s no single format an adoption profile needs to follow. However, there are lots of different things a profile can include depending on what your attorney or agency discusses with you. A typical adoption profile could run from two to 10 pages, and it might include all or any of the following:


    A summary of your family, including information about your extended family.


    A description of your home and community and how they relate to raising a child.


    Descriptions of your family’s lifestyle, any family traditions, and usual activities.


    Pictures of your family, your home, your community, and the things you do for fun.


    A letter discussing why you have chosen to adopt and how you intend to raise a child.


    Your adoption agency may have specific guidelines about the adoption profile. In general, you are able to add anything to the profile you feel may be beneficial. Before you begin your adoption profile, you’ll usually be able to consult profile examples that have been effective in the past.


    How Do I Make an Adoption Profile?


    An adoption profile can be completed in hardcopy – that is, as a printed book or brochure but with the pandemic and online availability, it should be accessible as a PDF that can be online. Ask your adoption professional about any templates or other resources they may have available. You do not need to design an adoption profile yourself, but you may be asked to choose from different options.


    Of course, you also have the option of designing an adoption profile yourself or using an outside expert, whether it is someone you know or a media professional. Whatever the case, you will only need to think about completing the text itself and furnishing the photos you want to include in your profile.


    How Can I Make My Adoption Profile Stand Out?


    Don’t Overwhelm


    An adoption profile should be descriptive, but not too long. The expectant mother is usually looking at several different profiles at any given time. Focus on what you would most like for her to remember.


    Show Gratitude


    Some pregnant women ultimately change their minds about adoption. Be sure to refer to the baby as “hers” and thank her for considering placing her child with you.


    Be Positive


    If infertility is part of your adoption journey, you may mention it, but do not need to if you don’t want to. Focus on your dreams for a child you can adopt and affirm that you want to maintain a connection with the birth mother.

    22 November 2024
    In today’s diverse family landscape, second-parent adoption has become an essential legal tool for many families, particularly for those formed through assisted reproduction, same-sex relationships, or blended families. At Modern Family Formation, we focus on adoption and assisted reproduction law across Virginia, Maryland, and the District of Columbia, and we recognize the critical importance of second-parent adoption for non-delivering parents. This legal process ensures that both parents in a family, regardless of biological connection, are recognized and protected under the law. Understanding Second-Parent Adoption Second-parent adoption, also called Confirmatory adoption, allows a non-delivering parent to gain legal recognition and parental rights without the need to terminate the rights of the biological parent. This type of adoption is particularly relevant in families where one parent is biologically related to the child, while the other is not. For example, in many same-sex couples, one partner may be the biological parent through assisted reproduction, while the other partner seeks to adopt the child to ensure equal legal standing. In some cases, the non-delivering or birth parent may be the genetic parent of the child, but will still need to adopt to secure their rights. Legal Security for Your Child The most compelling reason for second-parent adoption is the legal security it offers your child. If laws changed and your parentage was challenged, the Judgment or Order of Adoption would protect your family. This protection provided includes medical care, education, and even custody should something happen to the birthing parent. Second-parent adoption ensures that both parents can provide care and make crucial decisions throughout the child's life. Protection Across State Lines Family laws can vary significantly from state to state. Second-parent adoption creates a legally recognized relationship between a child and both parents, which is respected nationwide. This means your family can move or travel without worrying about the variability of state laws affecting your parental rights. Ensuring Inheritance Rights Without a legal parent-child relationship, a child may not automatically inherit from their non-birthing parent. Second-parent adoption safeguards a child’s right to receive an inheritance, social security benefits, or insurance payouts. It provides peace of mind knowing that, in the event of the unthinkable, your child’s financial future is protected. Emotional Stability and Recognition Beyond the legal aspects, second-parent adoption affirms the emotional bond in the family.. It validates the family unit in the eyes of society and gives the child a sense of stability and belonging. Knowing that both parents are recognized equally reinforces the child's understanding of their family structure. Facilitating Parental Responsibilities Day-to-day life involves countless interactions where parental authority is assumed or required. Picking up a child from school, authorizing a field trip, or attending a doctor’s appointment are all situations where having clear, legal parental status is essential. Second-parent adoption removes any ambiguity about who has the authority to act on behalf of the child. Preparing for the Future Life is unpredictable, and preparing for all eventualities is part of responsible parenting. Should the birthing parent become unable to care for the child due to illness or death, second-parent adoption ensures that the non-birthing parent retains full parental rights, avoiding potential custody battles with other relatives or the state. Health Insurance and Benefits Many employer health plans and government benefits extend coverage to a child only if there is a legal parent-child relationship. Second-parent adoption may become necessary for securing these benefits for your child, including health insurance, life insurance, and access to family leave if your legal relationship was challenged. Reflecting Real-Life Families Our society is evolving, and the concept of family is more inclusive than ever before. Second-parent adoption is a way for the law to catch up with reality, recognizing and protecting all family structures. It sends a message that all families, regardless of how they are formed, are valid and deserving of equal treatment under the law. Conclusion At Modern Family Formation, we believe that every family should have the opportunity to secure their bonds through the full extent of the law. Second-parent adoption is not just a legal formality; it's a crucial step in safeguarding the well-being of children and the rights of non-biological parents. It's about ensuring that love, not just biology, defines what it means to be a family. If you're considering second-parent adoption, know that you're taking a powerful step towards protecting your family's future. If you have questions or would like to learn more about second-parent adoption, please contact Modern Family Formation today!
    10 September 2024
    Adoption is a profound journey that reshapes family boundaries, often bringing immense joy and fulfillment. Among the various forms of adoption, kinship adoption stands out as a unique opportunity to maintain biological family ties while providing children with the stability and love they need. As an adoption attorney, I have witnessed firsthand the transformative power of kinship adoptions and the myriad benefits they offer to both children and families. Preserving Family Bonds Kinship adoption occurs when a child is adopted by a relative or a person with whom they share a significant emotional bond. This could be a grandparent, aunt, uncle, adult sibling, or cousin.. One of the most significant advantages of this arrangement is the preservation of familial connections. Children in kinship adoptions may experience less trauma compared to non-relative adoptions because they are placed in a familiar environment, with people they already know and trust. Continuity of Culture and Identity Children thrive on continuity, and kinship adoption can provide a sense of identity and belonging that is crucial for their development. By staying within their biological family, children can maintain their cultural heritage, traditions, and language. This continuity can help to foster a strong sense of self and supports a smoother transition into their new family dynamic. Strengthening the Support Network Kinship adoption not only benefits the child but also strengthens the support network for the adoptive family. Relatives often have an established relationship and understanding of the child's background and needs. This shared history can make it easier for the family to navigate challenges and celebrate successes together. Legal and Financial Considerations From a legal standpoint, kinship adoption can be more straightforward than other types of adoption. Since the adoptive parents are already related to the child, there may be fewer hurdles to overcome in terms of custody and parental rights depending on the circumstances. Additionally, some states offer financial assistance and resources specifically for kinship adoptions, helping to alleviate potential economic burdens. Emotional Stability and Well-Being Children in kinship adoptions generally benefit from greater emotional stability. They may be less likely to feel abandoned or rejected since they remain within their family unit. This stability is essential for their emotional well-being and may lead to better outcomes in terms of mental health, academic performance, and social relationships. Conclusion Kinship adoption is a compassionate choice that can enrich the lives of everyone involved. It offers a way to keep families together, preserve important bonds, and provide children with the love and security they deserve. As an adoption attorney, I am committed to supporting families through this process, ensuring that the best interests of the child are always at the forefront. If you are considering kinship adoption, we encourage you to explore this rewarding path and discover how it might benefit your family and your loved ones. Learn more about kinship adoption now.
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